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Pegging has become a popular and empowering way for couples to explore power dynamics, prostate stimulation, and deep intimacy. But finding the right toy that works for both partners can be a challenge. Enter the Lovense Lapis — a strapless strap-on designed for dual pleasure, combining a curved G-spot bulb for the wearer and a realistic shaft for the receiver. Whether you’re new to pegging or a seasoned pro, this guide will walk you through how to use the Lovense Lapis effectively, from setup to advanced play.

Unlike traditional strap-on harnesses, the Lovense Lapis is designed to be worn without a harness, using pelvic floor muscles to hold it in place. It also features powerful vibrations and app connectivity, making it one of the most versatile toys on the market. In this article, we’ll cover everything from pre-play preparation to positioning, app features, and creative ways to use the Lapis beyond pegging — including solo play and partner exploration.

What Is the Lovense Lapis? A Strapless Strap-On for Dual Stimulation

The Lovense Lapis is a body-safe silicone toy that functions as a strapless strap-on. It has two ends: a bulbous insertable piece that sits inside the wearer’s vagina for G-spot stimulation, and a longer phallic shaft designed for anal or vaginal penetration of a partner. The toy is curved to hit the G-spot and prostate simultaneously, while powerful motors in both ends provide rumbly vibrations. It’s fully app-controlled via Bluetooth, allowing you to adjust patterns, intensity, or sync to music and sound.

Because it’s strapless, the Lapis requires some practice to keep in place. Many users find that using a snug pair of underwear or a harness helps during first attempts. The toy’s flexible yet firm silicone ensures comfort for both partners, and its waterproof design makes it easy to clean. For those seeking a hands-free, intimate experience that stimulates both people, the Lovense Lapis is a top-tier choice.

• Body-safe silicone, waterproof, and rechargeable
• App-controlled with customizable vibration patterns
• Designed for G-spot and prostate stimulation simultaneously

Preparing for Pegging: Lubrication, Communication, and Setup

Before diving in, preparation is key. Start with open communication about comfort levels, boundaries, and desires. For the receiver, especially if new to anal play, using plenty of high-quality lubricant is non-negotiable. Silicone-based lube works best with the Lapis’s silicone material, but water-based is also fine. Apply lube generously to both ends of the toy and to the receiver’s anus or vagina.

For the wearer, inserting the bulbous end and holding it with pelvic floor muscles can take practice. Some users prefer to wear a harness or tight underwear for extra security, especially during vigorous movement. The Lovense Lapis can also be used with the Lovense Hush 2 App-Controlled Vibrating Butt Plug for the receiver to add an extra layer of stimulation. Take your time with warm-up activities like fingering or using a smaller toy before attempting full penetration.

• Always use plenty of lube — silicone or water-based
• Warm up the receiver with smaller toys or fingers
• Consider a harness or tight underwear for stability

Positioning Tips for Maximum Comfort and Pleasure

Positioning is everything when using a strapless strap-on. For beginners, the receiver lying on their back with legs spread (missionary-style) allows the wearer to control depth and angle easily. The wearer can kneel or stand at the edge of the bed. This position also lets both partners maintain eye contact and communicate. Another great option is doggy style, where the receiver is on all fours and the wearer enters from behind — this allows for deeper penetration and easy access to the prostate.

For the wearer, leaning forward slightly can help keep the bulb in place. If the toy slips out, pause, reinsert, and adjust your angle. Using the Lovense Velvo Rotating Rabbit Vibrator as a warm-up toy for the receiver can help relax muscles before switching to the Lapis. Once comfortable, experiment with different rhythms and depths. The app allows you to change vibration patterns on the fly, so you can match intensity to the moment.

• Missionary position: great for beginners and eye contact
• Doggy style: allows deeper penetration and prostate access
• Use the app to switch vibration patterns during play

How to Use the Lovense App for Long-Distance and Creative Control

One of the standout features of the Lovense Lapis is its app connectivity. Download the Lovense Remote app (free on iOS and Android) and pair the toy via Bluetooth. From there, you can choose from pre-set vibration patterns, create your own, or let the toy respond to music, ambient sound, or even your partner’s voice via the microphone feature. This is perfect for long-distance couples or adding an element of surprise to your play.

For pegging, you can hand control to your partner so they can adjust the vibrations on the wearer’s bulb and the shaft independently. This two-motor control is a game-changer. You can also sync the Lapis with other Lovense toys, like the Lovense Lush 4 Remote Control G-Spot Vibrator, for double stimulation. Try setting the Lapis to a low, steady hum during foreplay and ramping up the intensity as you both approach climax.

• Pair with the Lovense Remote app for custom patterns
• Let your partner control vibrations for shared pleasure
• Sync with other Lovense toys for multi-point stimulation

Beyond Pegging: Creative Ways to Use the Lovense Lapis

The Lovense Lapis isn’t just for pegging. Its dual-ended design makes it a fantastic solo toy. The bulbous end can be used as a G-spot vibrator, while the shaft end works as a powerful clitoral stimulator or a dildo for anal play. You can also use it with a partner in a modified missionary position where both people lie on their sides — the wearer inserts the bulb, and the receiver slides onto the shaft. This position is intimate and allows for grinding motions.

Another creative use is during oral sex. The wearer can insert the bulb and use the shaft as a handle to press against their clitoris while receiving oral. The vibrations add a whole new dimension. For couples who enjoy double penetration, the Lapis can be combined with the Lovense Ridge Vibrating Anal Beads for the receiver, creating a symphony of sensations. The possibilities are limited only by your imagination.

• Use the bulb end as a G-spot vibrator for solo play
• Try side-lying positions for intimate grinding
• Combine with anal beads for double penetration

Cleaning and Maintenance for Long-Lasting Use

Proper care extends the life of your Lovense Lapis. After each use, wash the toy with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated sex toy cleaner. Because it’s waterproof, you can rinse it thoroughly under running water. Pay special attention to the crevices where the bulb meets the shaft. Dry it completely with a lint-free cloth before storing it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.

Avoid using silicone-based lubricants if you plan to use silicone toys long-term, as they can degrade the material. Stick to water-based lubes for the Lapis. Charge the toy fully before first use and avoid overcharging. The magnetic charging cable is easy to use, but keep it away from water. With proper care, your Lapis will provide years of pleasure.

• Wash with warm water and mild soap after each use
• Dry thoroughly before storing
• Use water-based lube to protect the silicone

The Lovense Lapis is a versatile, app-controlled strapless strap-on that opens up a world of possibilities for pegging, dual pleasure, and creative play. Whether you’re exploring power dynamics or simply seeking deeper intimacy with your partner, this toy delivers on all fronts. Ready to elevate your play? Explore the Lovense Lapis and discover how it can transform your intimate moments.